My grandfather, Papa Harry, believed we should not use “bad luck” as an excuse for poor decisions. Too often, people blame their failures on “bad luck” and other people’s successes on “good luck.” What does that teach our children?
“The Three Little Pigs” is a classic story. It also teaches an important lesson about learning from one’s mistakes and making connections. Who opened my eyes to this message? My six year old niece.
My grandmother, Nana Evelyn, longed to become an actress. Unfortunately, her mother refused to allow Nana Evelyn to pursue this dream. Having an actress in the family was too scandalous. Nana Evelyn was not only devastated, she felt ashamed because she was “different.” Her mother’s words of wisdom made Nana Evelyn realize individuality can be a wonderful thing.
What happened to the days when politeness and kindness went hand in hand with communication? Is it alright to speak without thinking or filtering? If politicians communicate by running with the lowest common denominator, should parents?
Hanukkah is a joyful holiday that celebrates many things. It also teaches us the importance of risk. Social media makes risk more, well, risky. We can’t hide our failures. Would the Maccabees have made the same decisions in a world dominated by Facebook and Instagram?
It is so easy to judge people’s parenting styles. I, too, am guilty of that behavior. But judging others goes against Jewish teachings. Why are parents so quick to point fingers?
I never understood why so many American teenagers consider it fun to get blacked-out drunk. Some of my son’s foreign friends shared my confusion.
When my grandfather came to this country as a teenager, his mother urged him to be his best self. She also reminded him that he represented something far greater than himself. My grandfather took these words to heart even as he slept on a kitchen floor.
Some politicians question the public’s right to know. Teenagers often do the same thing when parents make inquiries. So what questions are acceptable for parents?